Another problem I have with conventional Christian thinking are the following two ideas:
1. That God loves all people unconditionally; and
2. People can only be “saved” from damnation by accepting a few choice propositions as fact.
Love and forgiveness are even more wonderful concepts than Christianity would have us believe. Implicit in the Christian notion of God’s love, is that it needs to be accepted in order to be received. Equally, forgiveness.
The idea that love needs to be two-way is a flawed one: It’s easy for us to subconsciously put conditions on our love given the rewards that we hope it will bring us. However, love is sometimes most strikingly apparent when it flows from one to another with no expectation of anything in return. The love of a parent for a wayward child, love for a stranger in need, and the ability to let go.
Love isn’t wonderful in the sense that it causes no pain, but because it provides us with a path through pain.
God’s love doesn’t save us. Our love for each other does.
